It probably does not come as a surprise to any of you, however, there are people in this world that try to break others emotionally down. This type of person most likely has a tarnished heart, plagued with darkness of his/her own. Maybe not intentionally, this type of person will try to spread this darkness onto others. If you are the target of one of these emotionally hurt people (I am sure all of us have been the target once or twice in our lifetimes) we must remember the words/actions being directed towards us is not for our actions but due to the actions of the accuser/instigator. At no time should a negative word be spoken to another person, unless done so in a motivational way, and in kind words. There are humane methods to tell a person to change his/her actions without being cruel and/or hurting someone’s self-confident and/or feelings. So my words of advice for whatever it helps…
Those being accused of actions or lack thereof, which can not be justified, should always remember not to take it personally. Actions of others is sometimes hard to justify but does not mean you should be treated as such. One does not have to be of a certain age to think of others kindly/humanely, it does not always come with age. I have seen children perform acts of kindness when ones’ parents are doing the opposite.
So how do we not take it to heart? It’s very hard but we must remember our true cause of action in our lives which is to treat others with kindness (as we would like to be treated), work hard, don’t be self-centered, project love towards all people, think not of what someone can do for you but how you can help them. If someone is hurting or not performing as one should, help them out. Teach them how to do something differently, show them by your own actions, or maybe just standing alongside this person in need. There is no need to hurt others, we are all here on earth to help each other. No one was placed on this earth to be superior over another. We all have different methods of doing things and think differently, so it is time we all work together to make the world better than just dispense those that we feel not up to par with our own methods. Let’s spread love, not hate. We are all worth love and happiness!